How Do I Know If I’ve Found My Twin Flame?

Last updated on June 1, 2012 at 12:00 am EDT by in5d Alternative News

The term twin flame is becoming increasingly acknowledged and familiar in the metaphysical realm, especially as the numbers of twin flame relationships seem to  skyrocket—most likely to help our world with the unique energies, perspectives, and power that twin flame reunions create. A twin flame is quite literally the soul’s other half, which parted before entering the 3rd dimensional experience and human incarnation.

Up until recently, most twin flame halves did not incarnate at the same time, but took turns supporting each other through respective human lifetimes. However, twin flame partners are incarnating together in greater numbers now with the special purposes of helping to maintain timelines, protect and augment energies, and move our world forward, particularly in the times ahead.

Since many soul-mate connections are also quite compelling, familiar, and strong, how do you know whether you’ve really found your “partner of ultimate destiny” or twin flame? Listed below are some of the attributes of a twin flame relationship:

1.  You had dreams or visions of this person and/or your energetic relationship before ever meeting in this lifetime.

2.  Meeting your partner felt like “coming home” to a familiar, long-lost energy. After meeting, you had “memories” of other times and places with that person that are not part of this life experience so far.

3.  Your partner mirrors your own issues, concerns, and imbalances, but you also complement each other’s skill sets, talents, and capacities. You are the ultimate embodiment of yin/yang.


4.  At least one partner is of higher frequency, possibly a First Waver, Indigo, and/or Crystal, or is genetically related to one.


5.  You may be of different ages, the same or opposite sex, vastly different backgrounds, “opposing” religions or cultures, but you feel an incredible unity or incomparable sense of oneness with your partner.


6.  You feel each other’s symptoms, illnesses, and emotions even when you are not near each other or in communication.


7.  Your functioning is impaired or much less optimal when you are apart from your twin flame. It physically and mentally hurts when you are not together.


8.  When you are with your partner and the relationship is in balance, you become stronger, more powerful, and more capable than you have ever felt. You feel united in a mission or “calling” to serve others and the world.


9.  Your unconditional love for your partner is like no other. Your partner is likely to have a certain habit, quality, or “baggage” that would be a deal-breaker for you in any other relationship. However, you overlook it or willingly work through it with this partner– no matter what it takes.


10.  You met your partner when one or both of you were in other relationships or otherwise “unavailable.” It’s likely that you met when and where you were least consciously expecting it.


11.  Either you or your partner feared the power of the twin flame connection and ran from the relationship so as not to feel overwhelmed and/or vulnerable. Years may go by before you are both in the “place” to finally commit fully to the relationship.


12.  The partner who ran from the twin flame relationship finally “wakes up” and realizes the significance. His or her “a-ha” moment comes as the result of a loss, illness, or other personal catastrophe. He or she then comes to terms with the fact that there is no other person or priority more important than the twin partner.


13.  No matter how many times you break up or separate, forces seems to bring you back together. You see the “signs” and reminders of that twin connection everywhere, urging you back together.


14.  Your relationship is characterized by extreme highs and lows, including passion and intense pain you’ve most likely never felt before.


15.  In efforts to harmonize, justify karma, and balance each other, you “push each other’s buttons” and test each other’s limits like no one else has or ever will.  Nevertheless, the extreme highs in the relationship consistently get higher.


16.  Friends, family members, and others in your circle can’t relate to the twin flame dramas and always try to get you to move on to someone or something else that seems more logical or better for you “on paper.”


17.  The growth you experience, the lessons you learn, and the person you become in the twin flame relationship are more significant, happen more rapidly, and are more powerful than any other experience or period of growth in your life.


18.  You realize that your previous soul mates or other relationships prepared you for the twin flame reunion. Your twin flame may even have or embody a number of the unusual characteristics or outstanding attributes of your previous mates and soul friends.


19.  You feel as if you’ve been waiting your whole life for this person. When you look back at your life, you see illnesses, sabotaged relationships, or other situations that  manifested because you were still waiting and still looking for “the one.”


20.  Even if you are extremely tired of 3 dimensional existence here on earth, you heal, evolve, mature, and continue to live– just to stay with your twin flame partner.

21.  You are an “old soul” and this is your last human experience.

22.  The more that you and your twin partner spend time together, the more rapidly and completely you awaken to higher consciousness.

23.  You have a deep knowing that your twin partner is your destiny– not just in this lifetime, but also when you ascend, return “home,” and are reunited for eternity.

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94 comments on “How Do I Know If I’ve Found My Twin Flame?

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    • Hi Divine, on your page how to recognise a twin flame/soul connection you state that sometimes the person will run from a connection when really they are interested/connected but are in denial about it. Does that not create a stalker mentality with the chaser whereby the “runner” states they are not interested or acts as though they aren’t’ no response to contact etc, and in a relationship with someone else and appears happy and the chaser continues to believe that “it’s just a matter if time before that person wants me or they love me but they just don’t know it, couldn’t that potentially cause a dangerous set of circumstances where a person is desperately uninterested and yet the chaser continues to believe they are and don’t believe it, Also isn’t it just as damaging where you mention to ignore a family member who may be trying to help someone who is fixated on a person blatantly uninterested in them. How can you tell the difference between a true twin flame connection that is in denial or someone that is completely and utterly not interested in you. And secondly how do you actually know all this stuff is decided before we come here. How do you really know for sure, what is your actual proof as you may be sending the wrong message to people who have mental health conditions in some cases.

  2. i’m the chaser…we r in opposing religion but we prayed together. though he’s not really awakened, i know he is the one….no doubt…

    • Sometimes the male off knows and is awaken too even if he doesn’t say it. Some guys are not comfortable talking about their feelings and emotions so they may not expressed it like the female half would. Just go by his action and your inner knowing…

  3. Hmm…the person, I am thinking of I met many years ago, and I was the one to run away. Then he ran. He moved and married and returned to his home State. I’m not sure why he was ever living in my state to begin with-we barely knew each other. He was kinda a crush-i was afraid to act on. He was the same religion as i was. He made me promise the last time i saw him, “no magic” and like a thief in the night he was gone. That was 10 years ago. I have married and found peace with somebody else-yet this one person still haunts me to this day. Not sure if he was my twin flame or not. But he greatly impacted my life in a very short span of time-gosh i met him 20 yrs ago. I was 19 and he was 21 or something.For some reason, I have never forgotten him, and still think of him often to this day.I feel guilt because I do love my husband very much, but this other person…i don’t even understand how i feel about him. It blows my mind. I wonder if i will ever see him again? Nothing ever happened between us- except one platonic night he held me as i tried to go to sleep. I even wonder to myself it it was all one-sided and if he felt nothing towards me. it was a weird experience. I wish he would walk back into my life-but I do not think i have anything to offer him.
    I wish i could forget him, but something will not let me.Perhaps he was just a symptom of the mental illness i was diagnosed with at age 18.

  4. I do believe in the notion of Soul Mates. And I believe you can have more than one. I suspect I have at least 3. Including the person mentioned above. But I have a close friend, who is something like a soul mate to me.He lives out of State, but I am nervous he maybe moving home. That makes me uncomfortable. The other soul mate being the married i married. We only married 2 yrs ago after living together for 11 years. So now this spring we will celebrate 13 yrs of being together. He adds much balance to my life. We rarely fight. And the sex has always been awesome. as a companion he is very funny, intelligent, gentle and kind. For all i know my husband is my twin-flame. It is all confusing to me.

    • If you are happy with the person you are with then that’s who you are supposed to be with :-) People don’t go searching for Twinflames. Twinflame is something that catches you off guard. I don’t think anyone that meets their twinflame is truly prepared or ready for the relationship that’s why they always separate after a brief meeting. It happens when you least expect it but when you most needed it. It’s magical, Mind blowing, crazy and painful. But it teaches you love, understanding, compassion and patience for every living thing. Be it trees, insects, animals or humans. You become sensitive to everything. You are able to relate to people that you probably wouldn’t relate to before the meeting and separation. Your husband is your Twinflame so take of each other… twinflame, soulmates, twinsoul it doesn’t matter we are always with and where we need to be at any given point in our life. It’s about being fully present in each moment and giving your all to the person you are with in a relationship. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your story. :-) I wish you all the love and blessings your heart desire.

      • When i met my husband, it was a chance meeting that took us both off guard. We have been together ever since. I was not even looking for a romance-it just sorta happened and he blew me away. So I knew I needed to be with him.It will be 13 years since our first date later this month. We have had ups and downs but i would not trade a second of it.

      • That’s your twinflame. Twinflame is not perfect they have their ups and downs like every relationship. Every twinflame union is different even though there are many similarities. The bottom line is we all need to be love and to give love because that’s what we are born to do … to experience love unconditional love. The twinflame labels really don’t mean anything. It’s how you feel that matters. Happy 13th anniversary when it comes :-)

      • Gorgeous reply. I couldn’t be more grateful for the validation I’m finding here. Cheers

      • they teach you a TON of spiritual growth, your emotions are MAGNIFIED too. Thank you for your insights because that is exactly true!

  5. Also, i feel especially lucky, because i still experience that weird “in love” with him feeling that one only has briefly at the beginning of a relationship or marriage.I sense he feels it too.Basically we are just as happy now as we were in the beginning if not happier.We met because, we were both at an indie coffeehouse one night and it was rainy cats and dogs. My ex had left me there and I was going to walk the 2 miles home-but I noticed this guy (my husband)-and how cute he was. It seemed others i knew were friends with him. So I felt safe asking for a ride home. After that we just clicked in such a way-magic happened-i wound up going back to his place instead of my place. We have been together ever since. People get a kick out of that story.

    • That’s how it always happen. The karmic relationship with your EX lead you to your twinflame relationship with your husband. Amazing grace always steps in to show you you deserve better and can have better. That’s an awesome story. I enjoy reading your comments about your story.

      • Thank you. The only things which bums me out, is he and i have different spiritual views. If he was simply of a different viewpoint-such as christian, jewish, islam ect. I could respect our differences. But he is a die-hard athesist and very against any religion.(even my own wicca) I simply handle this difference by not discussing religion at all with him. It is sad to me-that he believes in nothing. But i respect his choice.

      • But thank you for enjoying our story. Yes, there was a degree of kismet in the way we met and still are together even now. We have a basically over-all happy marriage which a lot of other folks are not blessed to say. I am very lucky to be with him.

      • Well he believes in you and him that’s why you guys are still together after 13 years. He deserve some credit for that :-) …Twin flames are very complementary. So there are going to be differences :-)

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  9. Love this post, I am not currently in contact with my Twin as we both decided we needed to take a step back from the relationship. I miss her more than words can say but I feel her in my heart every second so she’s never far from me at any given time. Thanks for this post.

  10. When I had met him first , I never knew about this term Twin flame but with my strange experiances with him and one after other things started coming out in front of me automaticaly…after such strange things , i started searching and came to know about TF. No one told me other then divine.
    For the first time I felt so complete and I have become more Me. I had never experianced relationship in such a way before. I feel him everyday, all these things are very strange.

    • I experienced the same thing too Goldy… The same exact thing… From my research on these things I have realize the average time it takes for the soul to workout their issues and the union to happen is roughly 18 months from the time you meet… During that time we well question ourselves, the union, our twin, but I guess it’s just all part of the process… The mind just can not comprehend because it’s the soul that is in charge during this time… Sorry for snapping at you the other day…My emotions are still out of control…some days sweet some days sore…I told my twin the other day I hated him and maybe it’s true maybe it’s not but that’s how I felt at the time… Anyways… I guess we are all emotionally beat from this twin flame union… Best wishes :-) . Astrology as a lot to do with it too… You should read this article… What is a karmic connection

      • Lol… Its ok :-) . Yeah its true, I m feeling the same way for him , Kind of anger in my heart but deep inside still feelings . Leave everything in God’s Hand because he has only bought us here and made us feel a divine relation , He knows better .

  11. And Though my mind has accepted the sour truth but my heart feels empty without him. First time I have experianced beauty and pain together.

    • Where their is love their is pain… Now we know when we finally reunite that we shouldn’t take this union for granted. The reunion is inevitable… It going to happen even if we don’t know the exact time or how it will play out :-)

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  13. I am a little confused between the difference of a twin flame and twin soul….how do I know if I have met my twin flame or if its a twin soul? i feel i have met both, so what does that mean for me? which is the better option for a relationship? oh i am confused :-|

    • To be honest I see them as the same :-) The authors of the articles may use different labels but they are the same when use in this blog. If you notice the stages are the same… It’s like how people call God many different names but it’s that same divine force they are talking about. Twin flame/Twin soul is just the ultimate soul mate union that awaken us when we meet and forces us to take a good look at our self and belief system. It’s also the beginning a profound spiritual journey to source.

      • thank you for your reply :) now I feel less confused :) lots of love to you xoxo

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  16. This is really so amazing. We both openly acknowledge that we are in fact TFs. Which I find fascinating all on it’s own lol. We were both married when we met. I am now divorced and he is not. But we have been seeing each other for 5 years now. He is so much more awake than he was in the beginning. And this journey with him has been incredible.

    The highs are very high and the lows.. just as low. But we always know what the highs are like and ride out the lows because we know exactly what we have in each other.

    We have had contact every single day since we met. Being apart is painful but we share that openly with each other. And we both agree on the reasons he stays where he is for now.

    We met in an unexpected way and he was the first one to tell me, that I don’t have to tell him how I feel.. because, he feels me.

    And we are so much alike it’s amazing. He says he has never been as close to anyone as he is with me. And I feel the exact same way. Everything I have ever done has brought me here to him.

      • I was reading some synchronicities and the email he used had the same numbers as my birthday.. and it’s the same as his house address.

        He says he has never felt as close to anyone as he does me. And I certainly feel the same. It’s so nice to not have to pretend with someone or wear different “hats” but to just be truly authentic. Not having to watch what you say or how you say it.

        Always being treated with respect.. something lacking in previous relationships.

        It was amazing he first time he casually draped his arm across my leg. The day we met and were talking. I felt this jolt of electricity run through me. It was incredible.

        He would often ask me in the beginning.. why me? And I didn’t have an answer. I would look in his eyes and shrug, shake my head. But I knew that there was just something about him that I wanted more of. And came to learn that after just 3 days together, he felt the same way. And we still do. Even though we can’t be together on a daily basis quite yet..

        I asked him once if we would know when it was time to give up.. he said, What is this “give up”?

        It’s been 5 years and we are still more and more connected every single day.

        I really do love that man.

  17. The person I think is my twin flame partner is a celebrity. I am 19 years old and I’ve been in love with him since I was 16 years old. I’ve been to only one of his concerts and I just hope I’m right about him. I haven’t met him physically…I hope I will meet him some day.

  18. If im understanding what a TF is ive found him… Does this sound familiar to anyone? We met in high school, had a connection were good friends but I never saw him in a romantic way. Long story short I got a boyfriend, got pregnant senior year by who I thought was the one and he married a girl from school. We lost touch for a while but would always manage to run into each other and reconnect. My child’s father and I split in 2010 we were together 21/2 years. My TF got divorced last year and that’s when things turned into a whirlwind. The divorce was awful he was a great husband but his ex wife didn’t want children with him, got pregnant, aborted. That ended there union. He expressed when everything happened I was the only person he could talk to. I embraced him and supported him. He finally expressed that he has held in the love he had for me for 6 years. He said from the moment he saw me he felt a connection, he fell in love almost immediately but was afraid I would think he was crazy. He felt he never had a shot so never said anything. I lost my virginity on a Sunday :( that following Monday the first thing he said was ” It’s something different about you… did you lose your virginity” I WAS CREEPED OUT never connected the dots that this man was so in tune with me. He studied me and knew more about me than I could imagine without anyone telling him! At first once he expressed himself I was in shock! Eventually I realized he was the type of man ive longed for, one that thinks the world of me, didn’t take me long to fall in love. Our world are opposite he’s an African Muslim I’m a Black Christian it’s not traditional to marry a woman that is not of their culture, we are considered different (AF.AMER) and by his wife also being Black and betraying him he brought shame to his family. Falling in love with me all over again has caused him great distress and me as well. We hide our connection, no one would understand it. I know when he’s sad, mad , happy whether he’s around or not. I call when I feel a disturbance and he says im not human lol we read each other. Our lives together is like something you only read about in books, it seems unreal. Our lives are COMPLETELY opposite but we connect like no other. I thought I knew love before but I had no idea!!! He has changed me SO much he has started my awakening I pray more, read my bible more, eat better, I wear my hair natural I’m proud of my African roots, he brings out the best of everything in me. We laugh together, cry together. I see synchronized numbers THIS IS MY FIRST TIME READING ABOUT TF’s I pray at 11:11 NEVER KNEW THE CONNECTION! In numerology we both share the #1 life path, I’ve dreamt of being pregnant with 11 children!!!! Crazy! I see him in my dreams I wake up in the middle of the night, think of him, and fall asleep!!!! I think this is it!!!! What do you think?!

  19. And to make it more eerie, both him and my daughter were born at 9:19 he was born am she was born pm, he was born with an enlarged heart she was born with half! NO LIE! Born 5 days apart <3 they love each other too he's her god father ( for now) ;-) we both agreed that his child he lost and my daughter should not have been created with our ex's but each other!

    • That’s an amazing story Keke… My twin and I also share the same life path and astrology sign… I did a birth chart compatibility report on both of us and we are extremely compatible… The areas where we differ are perfectly complementary. He is yang to my every yin and I am yin to his every yang and vice versa…. Ever since I have met him I have gotten so involve in all kinds of astrology trying to understand the connection… I realize there are lots of truth to astrology and númerolgy. I also realize my instincts are on point. Everything I have felt the astrology report verify it. Astrology is a practical way to get more insight as to what’s happening….. Especially, the Eros and Psyche position and the Chinese astrology

      I don’t normally tell people who their twin flames are but that’s an amazing story if you think he is your twinflame…. Then he is your twinflame… Your heart never lies…. Bless your soul Keke ;-)

  20. Thank you, if not he’s here for something… we confessed that we were made for each other and promised to never stray again… Thanks for reading!

    • It’s awesome when you finally move passed the separation phase and are united on physical level as well… It’s truly an amazing story… You know he is your twinflame, you really don’t need my confirmation or anyone confirmation… He is your twin ;-)

  21. The Person im dealing with is somebody who met me when i was shattered due to some Life experiences.This Guy was Kinda flirt.He told me His stories and we were like friends but then he proposed me .i refused so i dnt get hurt but he kept pushing me when i finally feeling comitted towards him ..HE got married to someone else but he kept hiding.His wife told me realty and she blamed me that i was the reason their marriage is not going well.i decided to leave but it torn me apart ..i felt Hollow inside until thn but that Guy kept coming back to me as he said he can’t live without me but he can’t do anything about it . .i Feel an immense satisfaction when i talk to him.he mention some Electricity which he felt in my presence.We both live in different countries.never met . .Different ethinicities. .My family pushed me to get married but dnt know its happened twice that things never went smooth and im single. .waiting for him . .feeling betrayed sometimes. .dnt want to attain his calls etc as i dnt want to hurt his wife . .dnt know what will happen next :’(

    • I feel an immense pleasure ,protection in his presence felt sometimes im attached with some Cord or something.I was looking at his picture once i had EXPERIENCED a gut feeling tht we met for a reason and we will meet someday..The next he repeated my words that if you want to get married or something just go but we will be togather someday its my belief. .im really scared He hurt me so bad still i love him like crazy although he is not good looking .my friends and family laugh at me but i dnt know i feel some connection with Him.God knows the best.

      • Thanks for sharing your story Bismil… God does know best :-) If it’s God’s will it will be done… Best Wishes and Godspeed

  22. I love how when we lay together we just meld into each other. We have had conversations about it. The feeling where, we don’t know where one of us ends, and the other begins. He as the first to use the word melding together. We had not even discovered the Twin Flame signs at that point. We just knew this was different than anything we had ever experienced.

    He says often, that he had no idea this level of relationship even existed. We have never argued.. not in 5 years. We talk things out instead. We give the other space when it’s needed, but we are always in each other’s hearts and minds, every minute of every day.

    There are so many times when our texts cross and we are saying the same things to each other or having the same thoughts. Quite often, I am thinking or talking about him and he texts at the same moment. Sometimes, all it takes is me picking up my phone and a text comes in. There are times he asks if I am ok… without any indication from me that I am not.. and he is right.. I am not ok. He just seems to know me so well.

    Finding him.. was the best thing that has ever happened to me.

    Very early on.. in the first 8 weeks.. I actually broke things off with him. And it honestly felt like I had been punched in the gut. It was like my insides were being ripped out. I lasted 18 hours before contacting him again. And he had spent the entire night.. staring at his phone, hoping to hear from me.

    • Thanks for daring Deb :-) Thanks an amazing story, it reminded me of my twin and I would constantly message each other at the same time or he would be messaging me an answer to a question I was about to asked… Sometimes his answers comes before my questions… So, we had to take a step back to let the energies settled… It felt so unreal yet was so natural at the same time….

      I love my twin so much ;-)

      That’s why I am giving him all the time he needs to work through his issues… A 1000 years in the human mind is only a millisecond when the Twinsouls reconnect… Time doesn’t exist in the Twinsoul connection… Nothing matters…. That’s love… I could die for that love ;-)

  23. I met someone 8 years ago and as soon as I met him I felt my soul vibrate like mad. I had been aching for as long as I could remember to meet the one who would make me feel whole. I had been in relationships before, even had a passionate one but I knew in my heart that there was someone who would complete me. Make my soul feel like I came home.
    Unfortunately he was in a relationship. Normally if it was anyone else, I would have just blown him off. But the feeling was so overwhelming . What I felt was instant, I feeling of selfless love, respect and desire to offer him the best I had. I felt so lucky to feel this way that I put my personal desire aside and did everything not to lose him. He needed a friend so I became his friend, I was the best friend that I could be. We became very close. It was the most genuine friendship and best relationship I ever had with a man and imagine we hadn’t even had sex. Unfortunately while he was dealing with his relationship I had my needs and dated another guy mostly to take out my frustration as I wanted my friend so badly but I didn’t want to impose that desire and make him uncomfortable. He was the one I wanted with all my heart and soul. To make a long story short, I got pregnant, so I lost any hope of being with him as a woman and we remained friends. But this caused trouble in my marriage later on as I never ever got over him, think about him every day, I feel him in me, I get flashes in my minds eye seeing him, what he’s doing, even when he had an accident, I had seen him in a dream very sickly and unwell without me knowing about the accident only to find out after( we still keep in touch) I ache for him just as I ached before I even knew him. Now I’m divorced ( I couldn’t last in the marriage as my heart belonged to him and my husband deep inside felt it) . While I was married he met someone so now that I’m free from bond he’s getting married. So I feel devastated. It’s as if we were blessed with all the most amazing gifts in the world except for timing!
    Now what did he think of me? Or more like how did he think of me? I don’t really know, he was very loving towards me, was always there for me. But deep down I have no clue. He would pull me close as possible and when we got too close he would pull back. Ironically, as long as we were close, he was the one always seeking me out, he was the one coming to me and he was the one who orbited me. He was over every week, I went to his home maybe three time in the three years we were close. Now I live 6000 miles away on my own with my child, and he’s getting married. Now he’s changed towards me and talks in a very typical manner, he only calls me when his partner is next to him and it’s as if he talks through a filter . It’s broken my heart.
    I never asked for much with him. I always took what he gave me, put all my personal desires aside. But this has broken my heart literally, if I valued anything more it was our spiritual soul connection way more than the flesh. I can handle him not wanting me as a woman, but to lose him in spirit I feel really lost. I feel like want I was aching for all those years, I found it and now I lost it and am back to how I was before. I am worried as to how this is going to affect me from now on. In total honestly I don’t want any other man. As my marriage was destined to fail, I feel if I try with someone else the same will happen. Since the day I last saw him I miss him every day. I feel like I have his ghost next to me and I can’t escape. I felt the purest love for him. Was this my twin flame?

    • Sometimes you have a resolving karma relationship with someone that resembles the twinflame union in terms of the strong connection. But, until you resolve that relationship or learn whatever lesson you need to learn it will continue to cause havoc on your life. Try and make peace with it…

      What is to be will be and everything that happened was supposed to happen. There is always something better ahead for us but we have to let go of the old to receive the new.

      • Thank you for your reply, I am trying, ironically something has come up and I’m needed to go to the country he resides, I happened to talk to him and told him, he almost leaped out of the phone with joy, I don’t know what to make of it, he is getting married still , I’m worried as to what I’m going to confront. I guess I will take it as it comes. Maybe this trip is destined. Maybe we have things to say to move on. Don’t know. All I can say it’s painful. Thank you for reading my story and taking the time to reply. I hope in this sad loss there is a greater beginning .

  24. Man, I’am an old soul, someone made me a nathal chart and told me I’m scorpio rising, and I was full of charges of the past lives. O_o I think I’m going insane.

  25. As far as my experience is concerned, real twin flames cannot be in any relationship or marriage with someone else. Their lives are so in-tuned with each other through events. When they do date someone else, that relationship won’t last even if it’s wonderful. Something will always find a way unexpectedly to break that relationship and would somehow turn you over back to your twin soul even apart. It’s really crazy and heartbreaking, because you will have to undergo series of breakups when you’re with someone else.

  26. I met my twin in the most random way. It was actually on an app game and we were drawn to each other from the very start. He added me on facebook one weekend when i didnt have access to the game because, he told me this later on, thinking about not being able to talk to me for even that short time was torture. After a month of literally non-stop talking (texting, or phone calls – i love his voice *sigh*) we found that we couldnt imagine being with anyone else, even though we tried to reason that a long distance relationship was a terrible idea… I didnt want to get in the way of his happiness but it physically pained me whenever I thought about him being with someone else- however, I would have gladly sacrificed my own happiness for his and he was willing to do the same for me. We’ve been together for nine months now and i couldnt imagine my life without him. We have our arguments, which are usually so trivial and out of the blue, and they get me so upset but we work through every single one and come out stronger than ever. I feel like he’s my missing piece and i feel more complete knowing he’s there. I feel as though everything I’ve ever been through in my life has led me to him and that I can overcome every obstacle because i have him. We are so connected it’s crazy sometimes… like he can never surprise me because i guess everything he plans (he’s always been good at surprising everyone else so this kinda annoys him) and i always bring up things that he’s thinking about without him mentioning a thing- leading to many jokes about me being psychic haha. It happens all the time so we’re getting used to it, but it still takes us by surprise sometimes. We still text and facetime every opportunity we get and we never get sick of our conversations… He’s the one person in the world I never need a break from and we both understand each other more than anyone ever has. It just upsets me sometimes that we live on completely opposite sides of the world. I have no doubt that we will be together when the time is right but sometimes the wait is so hard when all i want is to be in his arms. But i know for certain that he’s the man I’m supposed to be with… Just need to be a little more patient i guess.

  27. I met my TF the first time when I was just 13 years old. We both went to summer camp and happened to be in the same cabin with the same camp counselor. Every time I saw her my heart nearly fell out of my chest. I thought she was more beautiful than words could describe, but felt like a complete dunce whenever I was in her sight. She was a bit older than me and didn’t seem to notice how much I liked her. Finally, near the end of the week there she seemed to take a small interest in me while I was walking along by myself. She rode up to me on her bike and asked me if I’d like a ride to wherever I was headed on her pegs. I took her up on her offer and off we went. This became a nightly endeavor and by the end of camp we were quite familiar with each other. The last night of camp, I remember being especially sad. How would I ever forget those green eyes?

    Little did I know one of my best friends had also befriended her and I would see her much sooner than I anticipated. On the day of her birthday the following year, my friend announced that we were going to be surprising someone for their birthday. I asked who it was and my friend gave me a rough description but I had no idea it was the girl I’d fallen in love with over the summer at camp. When we reached her house, being the young romeo that I was, I wanted to make sure that I was the first one to see her and surprise mystery girl for her birthday. She opened the door with pajama shorts and a t shirt on and looked just about as scared as I’m sure I did. Her mouth fell open and I blurted out, “Happy Birthday! Surprise!” just as my other two friends walked up from behind. She ran to put some clothes on while her mother let us in and congratulated us on successfully surprising her. I couldn’t believe it, it was actually her! As she was in her room getting ready I agonized over not having a gift to give to her, I hadn’t anticipated that she was the girl we were surprising and consequently, had brought nothing to give her. As she walked out and I got a glimpse of those eyes again, I quickly turned around and pulled off my “livestrong” bracelet from my wrist. I turned around with my hands behind my back and said I had a present for her but she had to pick the right hand. She picked the right hand and I handed her the bracelet, which she smiled at and quickly put on. She showed me around her house and her room, every time I was with her I remember feeling as though she was the only one who existed. We went outside and skated down the hill in front of her house. I’ll never forget looking over at her and seeing her smile at me. I was so overwhelmed that the only thing I could do was push forward on my skateboard and go as fast as I could go down that hill.

    We all spent the day together riding go carts and bowling. We ended the night at a close friends house who had a mini ramp. She had a guitar and I played it with the hopes of attracting her. Like magic, I started to play and she sat in front of me and just listened and watched. Every time I looked up and saw her sitting there before me, my heart would stop until I looked back at the guitar again.

    Myspace was the current fad at the time, and after that night I was determined to find her on there and talk to her. I successfully found her and sent her a love poem, hoping greatly she didn’t think I was weird and liked the poem. To my surprise, I awoke the next morning to a poem in my inbox from her. We sent each other love poems for the next few months and I sent her a few I had written myself. She said my poetry lit a spark of inspiration in her and she greatly wanted to learn to write too. I encouraged her to write her own poem and to show it to me when she was finished. That year, she surprised me by showing up to my 15th birthday party. I’ll never forget the way she looked at me when she handed me her gift, a poem she had written for me. It was the most special gift I’d ever received. I re read it when I got home and agonized over what to do about this beautiful poem. My final decision was to keep it in a special place in my room and keep it forever.

    The months went on and life flew by. We were in separate high schools and began to date people from our schools. I heard from her from time to time and still couldn’t help but feel my heart fall from my chest each time I so much as looked at a picture of her, but each time I would check up on her she would have a boyfriend and I just assured myself she was happy with that person and that I was happy for her.

    The years went on and before I knew it we were both in college. I had heard from her sparingly over the years, once to pray for her when her grandmother died, once or twice just to catch up, but nothing serious. Then one night I was talking with that same mutual friend we’d both had for all those years when she brought her up. I asked how she was doing and she told me I should get ahold of her, that she asked about me often. When I got home I checked my email with the intent of writing her and to my surprise, she had already written me. Her message was simple, but I remember being amazed that she had basically read my thoughts and emailed me. I emailed her back with my number and the next day we were texting back and forth. Then one night about a week later I decided out of the blue that I would try calling her just to see if she would recognize my voice. She answered the phone and her voice was so sweet that every part of me melted and I was unable to speak for a moment. Before she got the chance to become too confused I blurted out a “hello!” and we began to talk. We spent the next two hours catching up and she told me how happy she was that I’d called, being that she had been at a party she really wished she hadn’t gone to and she’d felt pressured to drink. I was happy to have kept her from the party if it was making her feel that way. Finally, at around 1am we said goodnight and I asked if I could call again the next night. She said yes and that she looked forward to hearing from me. Week after week we talked, sometimes all through the night until the sun came up. She told me a few times that she had something she wanted to tell me, but always ended up unable to say it. Then finally, one night, after we’d been talking every night for almost a month, she came out with it. She asked if it would be okay if she told me that she loved me, and she told me that she’d never said this to anyone before other than her parents because she wanted to make sure she meant it when she said it, but she had no other words that came close to the way she felt about me. I was amazed. All those years thinking about her and wishing I could have the courage to ask her out on a date or that I lived closer to her, and now, here she was, on the phone confessing her love for me. I had no choice but to do the same. I told her it was okay if she told me that, because I loved her too, and that I’d loved her for some time now and had just been afraid to tell her.

    We met again for the first time in years a few days later, and from our first embrace I felt what was like a jolt of electricity run through my body. This girl was definitely different than any girl I’d ever encountered previously. We spent the day under the tree’s laying in eachother’s arms and I’ll never forget how natural things seemed to feel, like I had finally come home. She asked me what I thought about our connection, and I told her I thought it was very special. I asked her what she thought of it and she said she couldn’t think of any words except for boyfriend or sweetheart. I said that sounded like a fine way to summarize it and she agreed, so from that point on we began dating. She departed that night after giving me a CD she had made for me and cookies, both which were sweeter than anything I’d ever received. The next time I saw her I also had a CD for her, along with the poem she had written me so many years ago, and I was surprised to see the little yellow bracelet I had given her many years previously on her arm.

    Many first’s happened for us both during the year and a half that we dated, including my first sexual experience and her first time feeling such intense feelings towards a person. No matter what phase in our relationship we were in, the feelings were either at an all time high or an all time low. There were no gray areas and this was something that I found very hard to adjust to. Being with her, however, was more worth it than 1,000 low days and even on our lowest day together, I felt better than my best day without her. The sexual experiences we had with each other were so deep that I felt as though parts of our souls and spirits entwined with each other, and I knew with a deep certainty that now that I had loved her and been united with her in this way, I would never be the same again. I shared this with her and she confided in me that she felt the exact same way. Sometimes I would feel like my heart was about to explode with love for her, and I would open up my phone to text her and tell her that I loved her only to realize she had just sent me an “I love you.” Truly, there was never a dull day with this person. On the day of her birthday, a day she insisted she had waited for years to experience because of turning 20 on the 20th, I proposed to her. I’ll never forget the tears that filled her eyes when I got down on my knee and said her name. I had spent the entire day memorizing something that I wanted to say to her when I got on my knee, and the moment I bent down I forgot all of it. So I just told her all my heart. I told her I couldn’t imagine my life with anybody else and I told her how when we were together, I felt as though we were one person. Tears ran down her face as she nodded yes to my final question and those same tears ran down into my mouth as I kissed her. I’ll never forget that night.

    We faced many hardships during our relationship, namely the fact that her parents (mostly her mother) didn’t approve of her being with me. Her mother had a lot of leverage in her life emotionally and financially, and her idea of a husband for her daughter was not me. She wanted her daughter to be with somebody who already had a stable career or at least some very quick plan about how he was going to provide for a family, and consequently, I had none of that at 20. All I knew was that I loved her, and I would do anything to ensure a future with her. I worked multiple jobs and began going to school to try to find some sort of long term career plan that would cause her mother to see how much I valued her daughter and was serious about a future together. She called me multiple times in tears after her mother had threatened her about something she would do if she continued to date me, but somehow I was always able to soothe her and speak to her heart, reminding her of how much I loved her. Finally, however, her mother’s opinion won out. One August night, after she had left for school, she talked to me and was absolutely bent on breaking things off with me. I reminded her about how much I loved her and about our engagement, but none of it seemed to matter. She was convinced it would not work out between us. Emotions were high and she ended up hanging up on me in a fit of rage. I called and called and called but she never answered. I lay on my bed and sobbed for what felt like hours. I spent the entire night crying my eyes out. Living without her was something I couldn’t even begin to fathom.

    After two weeks I couldn’t take it any more. I’d done my best to give her the space she needed and was beginning to lose my mind because of the things that were unsaid and undone between us. I had to at least see her one last time and know that it was over between us, that this is what she wanted. So I drove 8 hours up to her school, spent every penny of my paycheck that month on the gas it took to get there and back, and sat on the bench outside her dorm room all day waiting for her to get back. Finally, I saw her car parked in the parking lot and walked up the stairs and knocked on the door of her dorm room. I had a letter prepared in the case that she didn’t want to talk to me but the moment she answered the door I knew I wouldn’t be able to say a word. I handed her the letter slowly, all the while gazing deeply into her beautiful green eyes, and then slowly backed up, closed the door and walked out. A moment later I realized she had run out after me and was spewing out a variety of statements in a fit of rage. “How did you get here!” “Why are you here!” “Did you drive here!” I realized I had invaded her space and I stepped outside, wishing I hadn’t upset her so. Just to look at her face one last time was enough, however. I’d missed her so much. How I wished I could embrace her and tell her no matter what happened, I would continue to love her and be there for her. Finally, after a long silence between us, I said softly, “If you want to talk, I’m here.”

    Moments later I realized that she had gone back inside and called none other than her mother. Her mother called me and informed me that I would never see her again and never date her again, and that she would be calling the police if I didn’t leave immediately. I complied and left. It wasn’t my wish to upset her or to hurt her in any way, I just had to see her one last time and set my own mind straight about the way things were between us now. That’s the last time I ever saw her. I’m 22 now and not a day goes by that I don’t think about her and miss her tremendously. She is truly the only person I’ve ever felt this strongly about. She got into a relationship almost immediately after she broke up with me and got into another relationship immediately after that one ended. I can’t help but feel like she’s only doing this to try to mask the way she feels about me, but I continue to keep my distance from her in hopes that she will really find happiness and not be hindered from it by me. She is married now and I greatly hope she finds happiness in that relationship. I still have very vivid dreams about her and long for the day that I see her again, in this life or the next. She truly is, to me, one of a kind. There will never be another like her in my life or heart and each day I spend without her it feels as though I’m holding my breath until I’m with her once again. There are truly no words to describe the emotions and feelings I felt and continue to feel towards her. It’s as though, even now, her spirit and soul are bundled up and entwined within my own and not a day passes that they do not commune, even if I do not consciously know what their communion is about. She is a part of me, and will always be. I will cherish the memory she gave to me in this life, always.

  28. I am watching this happen to me, as an audience member in seat #16. It is with the deepest most searing visceral pain, yet a profound sense of wonderment in my heart, mind, and the very root of my soul – to witness this supernatrual event unfold before my very eyes. It’s clear that this has happened before, and will happen again. I never had what was never mine, and perhaps one of the purposes of my life has been served; and this enlightened post provides veritas to my temporary insanity.

  29. Does anyone ever feel like they are just giving themselves false hope? Like i have felt all the signs of twin flame/ soul mate connections but sometimes I feel like I’m just being stupid and I am not accepting the fact that it is over. I wish I could have a sign that I just 100% know so I don’t very hurt and stupid all the time.

  30. wow as time goes on more, I am noticing more of these on the checklist. He is my comfort, my calmness. He had caused me some emotional pain but when I’m around him, but I want to do my personal best & I have really felt a lot of personal and spiritual growth recently. And when he’s around me (except for a brief period of time of some intense tension), I feel glad to be around him. His eyes, I never had anyone look at me the way he used to look at me. Is there any way to know for sure he really is my twin flame or is it truly that unspoken instinct of me desiring to be around him and when I’m not he’s all I can think about?

  31. ,whoa..this seems happening to me 2 years ago. I meet this guy in unxpected time with a coinsidence happen. I been into relationship w/ some1 in that time. But i dunno. I felt strange when I meet this guy. Some kinda magnet pulls me to get close to him. Until I made this sudden decision to be with him. I admit I’d already fall for him the first time I saw him.

    • I know what you mean! Yes, I know what you mean! But don’t admit feelings if they’re already committed! It’s intense!!

  32. We met when we were at school, he was a year older than me in that time and had a girlfriend (I knew that a years later) I didn’t knew him, until someone strange started to caress my shoulder and saying “hello”, and the he inmediately ran away. I never give interest to that beacuse I was thinking on other men in that age.

    One day I was sick in nursery and he was doing a test, we talked a little and laugh about something and then, when my mother came to take me home and his mother did the same, before he went with her, he turned back, and stared at me, I never could forget his eyes again, it was something intense that made me feel naked I was devasted.

    But in that year, the last year he was in school, I keep chasing other men and being selfish and I forgot about him, he kept saying hello to me and then leave with a smile, I was like “wtf? he is weard I he didnt even know me” Well that was a mistake, because a year later he told me about things of me that I never told him, he always knew where I was living, the color of my house, that I had dogs, my name, and i didn’t kew his. I was in shock, like he was a stalker or something.

    There were times when I was feeling lonely and hurted by a man, that I began to search, obviusly, I was selfish and wanted to use him to made other men jealous, then he ignored me and ran away from me. When I forget to chase him, he began to talked to me again it was like he knew my intentions.

    Then I suffered a big love deception and I was really hurt, depressed, then just one day later he came to my school, when I was devasted, and he said hello again and then we chated and I asked him his name he was shocked when I asked this, (because he must wanted to me to think about me like him and know everything). That was after he went to university. That year, he and her girlfriend broke up and I began to seek him to talk again. I began to dream about him, that I was seeking desperately for an unknown house near the beach, that years after I knew was his house! I had the feeling that someone who I loved was in that house. I dreamed that we met in many places and that he kissed me and left me, staring at me. Those dreams became frequent before the next chapter, even I dreamed that his girlfriend was pregnant and that he began to reject me and treated me bad, was a nightmare.

    We begun to meet accidentally in many places, I thought about him everyday I was feeling pain when I thinked that maybe he loved his girlfriend and that I was only a fantasy, that I had to move away from him.

    And one day we met and I was susprised, I could feel when he was near, (now i still feeling this) like a strange sensation of electricity and shaking I was petrified in front of him, and when I recognized him in distance he always turned back to stare at me and keep petrified like me, his eyes were of suffering, he wasn’t smiling like in school.

    Months later he was suffering because she left him and later told me that was because he was cold to her and lied to her and that he felt sorry because always thought that he hirted me, like that he was using me, for think about me when he was with her, it was like he knew that I was attracted to him.

    Then we started to chat in msn everyday, and thank me, that he started to eat and sleep well since we talk, that he didn’t needed more pills for his depression (He has bipolar disorder) and that I was an angel to him in that moment of his life when he needed me the most.

    Then unexpectedIy, I became very selfish and I feel like I had to be with him desperately, like was a prize to show others, the girls and boys who laughed at me and told me that no one would love me, and to call the attention of the other guy who left me before, and I was using this man.

    One day we had a date, he was waiting for me, staring at me in the street with a big smile and didn’t see anyone who passed between us, but, I wasn’t happy im that moment. Then things became weird. I was really nervous and forget all that I wanted to say to him (to manipulate him), and he was talking about the things that he loved to do I didn’t took attention to that. Then he became weird to, when I looked at his, eyes he became nevious and hide her eyes from me. In that night I was looking at him while he talked to me, and I feel strange, like I didn’t wanted to be with him, like what the hell I am doing with this man? I don’t like him anymore, this isn’t what I expected. And I became cold and I say goodbye to him, I just wanted to sent him away quickly.

    The days started to pass, and he began to left messages in his facebook status of deception, of feeling angry and that the things wasn’t what he expected, that he was suffering and that didn’t knew what to do more that to be alone a long time. In that moment I realized I was awful to him and I was selfish trying to use him, that he really liked me and was worried about me, and I was a bad person. Then he started to ran, he became cold, ignored my messages and calls, he answered me with rage and began to meet with other girls. Then I told him that I was desperate, that I needed him in my life, then he said that he would NEVER come back to the past, that he wanted me and I didn’t loved him, that I didn’t wanted to know him inside, that I would forget him faster than I thought, that he was angry. And then I felt guilt and I began to feel rage against him for left me and told me that things. That was the first phase of he running away after we were so close. Then I began tho remember…

    One year before he left his birthtown and came to my school in another city, I had a strange experience. I was stealing books in the library of school xDD and a blond and thin man touched my shoulders and said “No, because I will read this before you do” and smiled at me. I was in shock. He was beautiful and wanted to read that author like I did! And I asked my girlfriends if they had seen someone like him, all of them said that there wasn’t anyone with that physical traits that was a joke, I searched in every guy in my school, no one was that way, I thought maybe it was an hallucination. Everything became clear when I remembered that situation, well I remembered it before, when he was without his girlfriend and we began to meet. Maybe he was right, and he will never come back for what I’ve done.

  33. My Tf was in a terrible mood today. It immediately sunk me into one as well and we had an argument over nothing : (. This is so very hard.

    • He’s in another terrible mood. I wish I didn’t feed of his mood so much. I’ve been so sad and upset for days but I do not know what is my problem. I see his face and then I realize why I am feeling these weird feelings coming out of on where.he gets upset with me when I don’t spend time with him but he doesn’t like when we get to close. He gets jealous and upset when I’m around others but doesn’t want to date me himself. He talks about we should be closer but does nothing to make us closer. He gets upset with me in cycles that are almost timed at this point. I could tell by just a look at his face what exactly is wrong before he even opens his mouth to tell me. I am always right. When we hug it feels like going home I don’t ever want to let go. I am at a loss as to how to even live my life. I can not even escape thinking about him. I see and here his name every where. I hear our songs all the time. I just want to feel better.

  34. This is very interesting. I have never heard of twin flames before. What’s more interesting is I have never strayed on my marriage, but have been talking with someone (no physical meeting yet) that I feel an enormous connection with,as if we have known each other forever. Although, neither of us are “available” Thanks for sharing this page :)

  35. okay this is a good place to update my experience. which 2 days ago was HUGE! my (I think twin flame) was cranky one day I saw him. But the last time I saw him a couple of days ago was beautiful! I felt such relief because he had been mad at me for some time. He said ” bye,” then my name as I was leaving and he rarely calls me by my name. He knows my name, lol. And he smiled. It meant so much to me, I wanted to dance around after that.
    And then when I tried to contact him last night(he doesn’t respond but I know he saw cause on Facebook messaging it shows the time the person “sees” the message), I had just finished a message and he was on at the same exact time, because it showed checkmark seen and the time ! . Oh yeah and when I was purposely trying to avoid this friend for a couple weeks, I kid you not,saw him driving in town -and I live in the country- plus I was actually doing well not thinking about him for a few days at that time when accidentally seeing him, and then seeing him drive around totally threw me off balance, I was like arghhhh honk honk honk almost getting in a car accident about 5 minutes after seeing him in town. Call this what you want but too many things do not make sense and just blow me away! Does this sound like this person is my twin flame?

  36. Oh gosh I have or almost gone through all of those phases or at least seen a number of them so far and am thinking the rest are about to show up if I’ve not gone through them already.
    Thank you for the clarification. Yes I have found him … !

  37. I’ve been feeling awful for a few days. Had a minor argument with my TF but it feels like my world is imploding. I’ve been on the verge of tears for days over what me brain says is a minor argument but my heart feels like it’s the end of the world. Why does this happen?

    • Minor argument.. it happens because they are trying to mirror things back to you that you need to work on. My TF does it from time to time, he will post something on Facebook or Twitter that doesn’t make me upset or anything but definitely makes me stop and think about who he is as a person. Then I realize the lesson… is to learn to be more accepting and realize he’s entitled to be who he is in this incarnation and what did I learn from it if anything or did it make me agree with him, which usually it does. As spiritual a being as I am I am also VERY logical and sometimes he blows my mind at how we think alike about things. Then I fall all over again.

      • I do not understand what us being mirrored back. He’s upset because I never told him I was published and he’s gotten a few rejection letters. He always gets upset when I don’t tell him things but I don’t get why.

  38. Ok I see now well if you would have said so perhaps I might have said something else instead. He wants to know you, if you don’t know by now, hiding things to “protect” your TF well this is what it gets you as you now know. In a TF relationship it is not meant to be all sunshine and rainbows my dear. There is meant to be openness and communication, and if you hide things it only bodes resentment, therefore driving you apart instead of together. He’s trying to get you to be there for him, your pain is because you know you shouldn’t be hiding things from him. He wouldn’t take it as bragging because you got published and he didn’t. He’d probably be over the moon for you supporting you all the way. He is asking for the same in return.

    • I see what you mean. I guess I just assume that because he broke things off with me and pushes me away it’s hard to understand why he’d want to know anything about me. He gets upset we are not close but shoves me away when we do get close. I don’t try to hide things on purpose I just ding know what to do a lot of the time. It’s so very hard.

  39. It will when he’s ready to make it work. Trust me I am going through things and my TF and I only met online and interacted basically on the astral plane and psychically and chat on Facebook and Twitter, we’ve not met in this lifetime yet. But the dreams and such have been amazing. We’re getting to be better friends online now little by little

    • I hope that is soon. This is very hard to go through indeed! I try to just concentrate on the blessings but when he gets upset with me it’s feels so devastating.

      • Do what I am doing.. get involved in YOU, in your own life, in other words… distract yourself. It’s ok to think of him and send him unconditional love (even spiritual, divine and romantic love through meditation which I do with my TF almost daily) Then I go to my job, I come home and do writing for my Facebook pages (I teach wicca and witchcraft) and I chat with my friends, read, watch movies, give oracle card readings, etc.

        If my TF comes online I say hi or something cute. He’s studying for his PhD in physics so we chat about science, and he’s also a musician. My “pet name” for him is “RockstarScientist” and he LOVES it!

        Believe me I am one of the most impatient people you’ll ever meet but I’m learning that the best things happen all in Divine Timing.

        Make him “miss” you. I do it with mine and am about to do so again for a few days. He then gets curious and starts to check his messages more often.

  40. We are actually pretty tight friends AND we work together. I try to get as into me as I can. One of our main issues is when I do not allow myself to be around him, it hurts his feelings so much. He’s been trying to get me involved in a lot of his out of work activities but I am hesitant because it would be a lot more time with him and I’d only fall even deeper in love. I make it crystal clear that I am there for him but I have to have a boundary because feeling these feelings but not being able to do anything with him is the most difficult thing I have even had to go through.

  41. I don’t understand the distance thing with the TF only talking through online. I have experienced mine in person and it’s hard to describe- joyful moments along with painful moments. Am I just blessed that mine is in person? He doesn’t want to interact with me online. I said nothing bad out of context but he doesn’t want to deal with me talking through social media!

    • Hmmm well based on the “checklist” above well it can happen that way I’m not the only one I’ve read about it on other sites. He and I interact through private and public messages online and I know when things aren’t right with him. He knows when things aren’t right with me either.. intuition if you will.

      Mine is kind of hard to explain really…. he and I have never met at least as of yet… in THIS lifetime.

      We have several past life connections and in this life he chose to incarnate as a someone who in his human form is “disconnected” from his Higher Self so to speak. What we have is a soul connection and we connect on the astral and psychic planes. It began about 4 months after we became friends online, thinking nothing of it. Then one night say some prayers to the universe of nothing really related to him (although now that I think of it what I prayed about very well may have been the thing that brought this into fruition) and BLAM! 3 weeks later a spirit messenger and then after that 3 days later.. he shows up on my astral field and I wasn’t expecting it to even happen, I hadn’t astral traveled in years. ( I have had several professional readings and psychics consult with me on this. It is indeed very real and true it’s only a matter of time)

      As far as yours not wanting to deal with you through social media, if that’s all you have well… unfortunately like me that’s all you have at the moment, if he doesn’t wish to interact with you perhaps offer him some other way to contact you not through Twitter or Facebook, but maybe set up an email just for the two of you or something. Honestly my situation is kind of unique but not really. There is a reason for distance and well.. it usually has to do with the both of you having to work out something in your lives apart from one another so you can eventually be together.

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